zledm007 wrote:you know, as i was reading lizzy's post in sirius' thread a thought came upon me. of the 4 marauders, sirius, wormtail, james, and Lupin, Lupin is the only one left, (well, except for wormtail, but he's really gone in a sense) i was wondering, how is this going to affect remus? how is he going to handle knowing that his best friends are gone?
Lupin is probably my favourite character (though, that's not to say there aren't many that I love) because of who he is and how he treats people...he's always struck me as a sensitive person (note how he didn't join in with Sirius and James in 'Snape's Worst Memory', nor cheer them on as Peter did), and so I think he'll take it quite hard. I'm not saying I think Lupin would ever take Sirius's place, but perhaps the common loss he and Harry share will bring them even closer together than they were. After all, Lupin is the last person who was really close to Harry's Dad, James, AND Sirius (other than Peter, and he doesn't really count). I think for Harry to lose Lupin would be the straw that broke the camel's back...
Not to say Harry nor Lupin will relish losing anyone else, but I almost think Lupin's better prepared to handle it. He was a part of the first Order (if I'm not mistaken), so he experienced several deaths that time around...including those of Harry's parents and the 'loss' of the Longbottoms. Reflecting back on book 3, I wondered what it was like for Lupin (well, for all the professors, but particularly him) to teach class and see both Harry and Neville, having known their parents and remembering that loss, first-hand.
As I said about Sirius on the 'Sirius Black' thread, I think Lupin, like Sirius, knows the realities of this war...he's been through one before, and though that doesn't make it easier, I think his innocence has gone. Both Sirius and Lupin struck me as two people who lacked innocence--they lost one of their best friends (James) and his wife, not to mention a score of other people during the time of the first Order. Although any deaths (other people's and potentially, their own) the second time around wouldn't be easy, I think they knew this going into the Order.
I could see Lupin being strong for Harry...acting as, not a Godfather replacement for Harry, but perhaps a mentor and the final link to his father and Godfather...which is why I will be devastated if Lupin dies in book 6 or 7. Don't get me wrong, Dumbledore's death would be quite hard, too (although, he is older, I think Harry is realizing Dumbledore isn't perfect nor invincible), but losing the final link to his parents and Godfather I think would be so sad for Harry. Lupin is truly a wonderful character...he is so much what Voldemort despises, and yet, despite all the prejudice and disdain Lupin has suffered in life, he never seems to come across as bitter, angry, or vengeful...just brave and determined to focus his energy on being the kind of person others should be, even when they are not.
We didn't get to see much of Lupin in book 5, but when we did, he struck me as the voice of reason and sanity when everything and everyone else seemed to be so chaotic and intense. It made me quite sad how he had to talk to Harry when Sirius disappeared into the veil...quiet, yet sad, acceptance. Lupin may be quiet and calm and pensive, but when he speaks, people listen, and whenever he is needed, he is there. He really is an amazing character...I daresay, like everything else he has faced in his life, he won't take Sirius's death in a stride, but with the same quiet thoughtfulness and determination to do what is needed. I really hope Harry does not lose this lifeline.
~ Lizzy
