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People must dislike me! I mean..WHY do they dislike me?

Postby FireyEmblem » Monday 5 April 2004 4:32:59pm

Please tell me it isn't cause I'm smart :cry:
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Postby Alice I » Monday 5 April 2004 4:57:29pm

FireyEmblem,
I am confused, why do you think that people do not like you?
Have you gotten nasty remarks directed at you in posts here at BandO?
I see that you are a brand new member with only 3 posts at this time.
Can you elaborate?
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Postby Athena Appleton » Monday 5 April 2004 5:30:13pm

I'm with Alice on this one... we both like to try to help, but just asking "why does nobody like me" without any elaboration makes it difficult to help you come to a conclusion... :grin:
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Postby Nobby » Monday 5 April 2004 5:47:26pm

i agree! i would love to give advice but need a little more to go on! :grin:
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Postby Female_alien » Tuesday 6 April 2004 9:22:25pm

Fireyemblem, I don't know why you think people dislike you but, as the others, I'd like to know why do you think that.
It also depends what people dislike you. if some complexed people eho don't have smarter things to do than bully or critisize than I would just advise you not to care about that at all. But if, so called, normal people, your frinds, dislike you than I really need your view of the reason
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Postby Krum » Wednesday 7 April 2004 5:38:47pm

THE GOLDEN RULE OF HEAVY METAL:
Don't give a **** about the others

i mean, just be yourself-if your friends don't like you the way you are, loose those friends.That's what i did recently.I will be myself and whoever denies my right should go to hell.It's possible that they don't like you because you're not like them.

Do you see what i'm telling you-if you like yourself, be yourself.You shouldn't change yourself because some jerk sais so
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Postby Tween_Luv » Friday 8 April 2005 6:08:48pm

it would be nice if you elaborate a bit, but, if i understand what you mean, i have the same probelm. girls at the ballet studio hate me ....because i got into college at 13...and so they, according to the one or 2 that dont hate me...are jealous or something...they find any little thing and say that i'm ungrateful
if someone dhates you, then, dont worry about htem..just, ignrore themiitis isn't worth your time
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Postby Tanuki » Saturday 9 April 2005 7:14:41pm

You were in College at 13!?! Wow!!! I'm 23 and I just figured out a career choice, and thats after being in college for four years

As far as people not liking you is concerned,,, bring books with you everywhere, or draw. The more you read and learn, the less of a factor they become; though try not to give them ammunition
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Postby Tween_Luv » Saturday 9 April 2005 11:59:07pm

yeah, they aren't worth your time if they dont like you. i dont know you to well, but still, thats the advice i've been taking with the girls at my ballet studio.
and, i still am 13! i just got into college a year ago. we had to pass all these exams, maturity tests, SATs, how we fit in, it was hard but, i made it =). the youngest one in our group (who happens to be the youngest person to ever attend college in the history of the united states) is allison and she just turned ten.
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Postby Tanuki » Monday 11 April 2005 3:13:19am

What DOES a prodigy do after college anyway? I mean, with your potential to learn, just going to work would be a collosial waste. I'd love to see how far I could go learning, it I was in your position
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Postby Tween_Luv » Tuesday 12 April 2005 5:34:50am

yeah, after i graduate (which will be in four or five years, it sometimes takes a bit longer for us) i will go on to get a masters degree...then a PHD and then probably research some stuff. I'm definately not stopping my education right after college. that WOULD be a total waste of going!
Most of the EEP students (Early Entrance Program is the program we're in, and we call it EEP) go to really top grade universities and get the highest possible educations they can. and by most, i mean, everyone except for maybe one or two.
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Postby Tanuki » Tuesday 12 April 2005 3:05:44pm

Those two pilot Eva's...j/k

How many from your program go back to high school or whatever in the hopes of having a more "normal childhood"
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Postby Tween_Luv » Wednesday 13 April 2005 2:45:29am

well. only about two or three have dropped out over the whole history of the program...and thats usually in the first month or so after being accepted. Not many drop out though, because the testing is really tuff if you want to get into this program, and they usually find students who are capable of coming young.
and also, with the "lost childhood" thing. its not a lost childhood. we have our own rooms in the college. the rooms contain fully equipped kitchens, sofa, game room, computer room, arcade room, study room, library, TV, and everything else like that. we dont lose our childhood. we just, have a unique childhood. we have the same fun, we just...different kind of fun. normal students go to proms and to the mall, we spend all day lounging around at schoo..or going to the mall there to. its not really a lost childhood though. we are weith people our own age...
its basically been found out by the program that unless you are a student in this program, or a parent of one, people would think that its a lost childhood, but i am much happier (and so are the other students) here, than we every were in normal schoo. :D
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Postby Broccoli » Wednesday 13 April 2005 8:24:28am

You seem to be very smart, Tween_Luv! :D :cool:

When did you decide to go to this program? Did you attend a lot of additional courses to be prepared?
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Postby Tween_Luv » Wednesday 13 April 2005 2:33:17pm

Thank you!! I decided to go to very advanced schools (although i thought middle schools and highschools) when i was in elementary school, because when i was in 4th grade learning .... i dont know what...i was able to do Algebra and Trigonometry. So, i decided to go to advanced schools. And at first i went to this highly gifted middle school, and after 7th grade...i decided to go to this college. The principle of the highschool all my friends went to had a meeting with us and she said that i would have to be put in 10th or 11th grade to suit my academic abilities...but, i didn't want that. So, she recommended the program, and i tried out...and got in. We have to take LOADS of tests to get in though, aside from the SATs and ELM and EPTs, we have to write all sorts of essays for the program, pass maturity tests, get at least a 3.5 GPA, etc. But, the university does require for us younger students to take some extra courses such as english composition, american history, but, we would have taken hem anyway, so that was fine. :)
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