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Mrs. Luca Black wrote:I must say that I still don't like Bill and Fleur. The way she's always doting on him is adorable in the most sickening way (and reminds me of myself), but I just don't like her and I don't think I ever will.
Mrs. Luca Black wrote:But, oh, their poor wedding pictures! He's going to have big, gaping, unhealed gashes in his face. What will their children think?
Remus spends most of the book avoiding Tonks like the plague. And when he gives her excuses for not being with her, he doesn’t meet her eyes (a sign, in the HP books, at least, that he’s not being entirely truthful—perhaps the real reason he doesn’t want a relationship…Sirius).
Also, in the case of R/T (and any relationship with a big age difference), there’s a generational gap that is hard to bridge. I’m not saying that’s bad for the relationship. I’m just saying that it’s hard to share power equally and see eye to eye because one partner lacks the maturity and world knowledge of the other. Doesn’t mean it can’t work, though. I know many relationships with large age gaps that have worked very well…it gets easier with time.
It just seems to me that in the case of R/T, I never got the feeling that Remus loved her. He might care for her, but he doesn’t seem to be too attracted. And keep in mind that Remus was always mature for his age. Tonks is, no matter what, still 10+ years younger than him, and doesn’t really act wiser than her years. Remus is an all-around nice guy and a people pleaser. Everyone was telling him to accept Tonks, and he was probably horrified by what his refusal was doing to her. He’s the kind of guy that would accept her love just to make her happy, even if he doesn’t necessarily return her feelings. But that’s just my take on it. You can disagree…I am a dogged S/R slasher, after all.
Now, when I said that I thought R/T was forced, I meant that it hasn’t been a long time in the making. The first time (and the second and third times) I read OotP, I wasn’t an S/R shipper and I wasn’t a slasher. Yet I noticed almost all the S/R subtext (even if I didn’t realize what it was at the time and even if JKR didn’t mean it to be interpreted the way that we slashers interpret it) and absolutely no R/T subtext. I’m not saying it wasn’t there. I’m saying that it wasn’t as numerous or as frequent as S/R.
"But Bill's not that down-to-earth. He's a Curse-Breaker,
isn't he, he likes a bit of adventure, a bit of glamour. ... I expect that's why he's gone for Phlegm.
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