Hermione....

[Scarlet Lioness]

Thestral:
but i would actually be among those girls who finds other girls tiring, bitchy, and a bit too sensitive at times. i like the way you can banter with guys. and if you have an argument, you punch it out then 5 minutes later both of you are bleeding, shake hands and it's in the past. but with girls.... nooooo it's glossed over with a veneer of 'it's alright, I'm so sorry' and hugs, while deep down their grudge is simmering and simmering away until one day 20 years later you borrow a coat and suddenly they bring up an incident you can hardly remember as proof that you are the worst person in the world.

I know for a fact that is true even at the ages of 13/14...I have had alot of fall outs and its worse when you've been best mates for life...Guys easily repair friendships by having a drink or going somewhere....5 minutes and bang! Friends again...Girls take time...some friendships cant be repaired....some take hours of apologies and groveling...

So yeah...

[thestral]

Well, on the one hand you complain about someone feeding prejudices and on the other hand you do it yourself...

no, cos i'm a girl and can comment on my own gender. also i was kind of joking about (but still no-one gets my sarcasm..). after all the battle of the sexes is as old as time. and the argument is basically one giant set of stereotypes.

unless you've been in the middle of a huge girls best friend fall out. you don't know what i'm saying is absolutly true. it's not a good time. and it is true, not just a general statement like 'all girls do is shop and talk about clothes'.[/quote]

[crystallised_pineapple]

yep totally agree thestral girls fallouts are the worst thing ever to get stuck in the middle of, everyone is mad and suspicious of everyone, tis horrible.

[thestral]

i'm really not a crying sort of person. like REALLY i don not cry easily, in the slightest. but when me and my friends had the biggest argument EVER, i don't think i stopped crying that entire day. seriously, there's nothing like it, you feel angry at them , but guilt because what you said hurt them, and they are the people who you love more than anything and the people you least want to hurt. it's one big swirly whirlpool. avoid at all costs, they're not easily patched over. it takes ALOT of work.

[pheonixrising]

[quote="Stumpy"]I thought she was dealing with her feelings with Ron in the wrong way. Its hard to have that going on in your head! but i agree she wasnt her usual self[/quote] stole the words from my mouth i think she is going to crack soon she is probably going to scream in the middle of one of his speeches say something like im tired of this and kiss him . harrys jaw will drop rons eyes will bug out and hermione will leave and ron wont be able to talk for a few hours